As a man, I know how important aesthetics can be when most of us look at a woman. Beauty is usually the first thing that draw us to a woman. However, beauty doesn't necessarily have to be a beautiful face. For some men, the body is more important than the face, but nonetheless, a beautiful body is part of the beauty package. Most men won't think twice about marrying a beautiful woman no matter how intellectually challenged she may be. Most of us would find ourselves excited by a woman's beauty alone. Of course, there's an exception to every rule.
Personally, if a woman lacks intelligence, she won't do it for me. I'm easily agitated by stupidity. I don't want to be in the company of an imbecil, because at the end of the day, frustration is always waiting down the road. You can't just have sex without having somewhat of a conversation for the rest of your life. I can only speak as a man and for myself.
Women tend to be a little different than men. Substance is usually key for most women. A good looking man can get them riled up, but most of them can't get past the lack of intelligence from a man. However, there are still women out there who just want to be with a good looking man.
To me beauty is not limited to the physical. A person with a beautiful mind add sassiness to the equation. Furthermore, when a woman is intelligent, she tends to be a notch above the rest. A smart woman/man can help you get ahead in life, while somebody who's intelletually challenged might be an extra load to carry.
Can you stay interested in a realtionship by beauty alone? Is beauty all you need to make a decision regarding a partner?
It's nice to know that all men aren't stuck on physical appearance alone. The most satisfying relationship is when your partner fills you with ecstasy physically and intellectually.
ReplyDeleteIn most cases between the age 18-30 I find both men/women have the tendency to chose a partner according to their appearance as well as what they possess not knowing if that person has a job or in the pharmaceutical business. EX: (a nice car, well dress, a body to die for ect.)
ReplyDeleteHowever, as women reach a certain age some of us get smarter. Academiclly we push ourselves to the limit, we look for intelligence instead of good looking or the tittle that hangs over a man's neck or material things.
We become more confident we set our goals and reach for what we want and desire.
We definitely choose our partner with caution.
I definitely will not go for a guy hwo is below my level no matter how charming he may be.
Beauty alone is not sufficient to keep a relationship going unless the intention is to fuck one another's brains out for one night and never look back.
Looks are nice, however, I need to be able to have a long intelligent conversation with an individual. That individual must be wanting more than a five minute relationship because I don't have casual sex.
ReplyDeleteLooks don't weigh very heavily to me because I have found that individuals hide behind "good looks". Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What looks good to one may be ugly to another.
Ones intelligence and personality is key.
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